tell us about the first time you met and your first impression of him/her:
We met in Coffee Bean Sarawak Plaza. The first time I saw him I was thinking to myself: he is great looking alright, but definitely looks like a player Nevertheless, I don’t mind having a good looking friend even though he might not be THEONE, WTF, I ended up happily with him.
what’s a weird habit or quirk that s/he has?:
He loves to place his hand under my armpit ( publicly or discreetly ) and then takes a sniff. Unfortunately if it happens to be smelly he will then directed to my nose without my permission and goes: EEEEEEWWWWWWW!
WTF. What do you expect armpit pheromones to smell like but stinky??!!!
what makes him/her happy?:
Cheap sales, the ones with 50% off or if they are free it’s even better.
His Bonsai.
what makes him/her sad?:
If I spend too much. I think he is worrying his own account draining away in the future.
what makes him/her angry?:
When I throw my clothes/handbags/shoes away.
what excites him/her?:
Investments plans.
what’s s/he like at home?:
Bossing around his mother, pampering his Bonsai or maybe just stand there for an hour or two admiring them.
what’s s/he like at work/school
Not really sure. I think he is the good looking one with outstanding neckties ( thanks to me)
describe his/her room:
I love the King size bed….and an extra small bed perhaps reserving for his second wife, no, for babies. Wooden old wardrobe with lotsa clothes inside nicely assorted into shirts, pants, pyjamas accordingly and makeup table with a few bottles of perfumes on it.
do you know who s/he hates the most?:
I don’t think he ever seriously hates anyone.
have you met his/her exes?:
Yep.
do his/her parents like you?:
I think so.
what’s the first thing s/he would do or say if s/he fell down and scraped their knee: Ouch. Darling…it’s bleeding.Massage massage and put some aqueous cream on it for me.
what would s/he do in an emergency situation with other people involved?:
Ordering people around being the boss.
which shop would s/he spend the most time at in a shopping mall?:
Supermarket buying groceries. Reading the food labels and comparing prices. Bookshop reading investments or gardening books., then he will go: Just read here, why spend money to buy?
what would s/he have for a typical breakfast?:
Those boring healthy stuffs like sandwiches/cereals/Spirulina.
where would s/he want to go for dinner?:
Home enjoying mum’s cooking. Or maybe Western food with lotsa meats.
what kind of movie would s/he choose at the cinema?:
Those action-packed movies or maybe wars films. He will moan if I want to watch chick flicks.
describe his/her taste in music:
He does not seem to have his own taste of music, He has lotsa music folders which he never listens to and when I play them he will go: Oh, this song is nice what song is it? Do I have that song?!
.if s/he wasnt going out with you, who would s/he be going out with?
His gay friend who brings him to weird/posh places which he never bring me to.
what item in his/her wardrobe would you like to burn:
Anything which is brown.
what is s/he good at?:
Erhm.
what is s/he totally horrible at?:
Consoling me without scolding me.
Telling me bedtime stories.
what’s something about him/her that is annoying/infuriating?:
He does nag.
He watches my spending closely and questions the origin of every single objects I owned that is new to him.
what’s something that you two fundamentally disagree on?:
Why do women need more than 1 handbags/shoes?
what’s something that you two agree whole-heartedly on?:
We are deeply in love.
is s/he possessive?:
Oh yes.
why would s/he succeed in life
Smart, perseverance something I am lacking.
what is s/he obsessed with?:
It’s seasonal. Sometimes it’s plants, sometimes it’s market stocks, recently it’s investments. I called them ‘strokes attacks’. And guess what, he is not on aspirin.
why would s/he be dangerous?:
He really can scold (and nag).
what does s/he avoid at all costs?:
Telling me bedtime stories.
what does s/he spend the most money on?:
Me..I think. He doesn’t normally spend a lot, but he is willing to buy me expensive gifts at times .:) Oh , sometimes strokes… depends on which kind of stroke he is having.
describe his/her typical sunday:
Woke up late and then called me up demanding why I did not give him a morning call.
tell us about a time s/he looked absolutely gorgeous:
When he wears his traditional pjyamas at night.. I am having fetishes with him in pajamas (those very traditional ones, the one with long sleeves and pants covering him from head to toe. I know I am weird!)
what’s something about him/her that would surprise all of his/her friends?:
He can be quite bossy and loving at the same time.
what do you love most about him/her?:
The list is endless. I love the way he pulls out those hiaw hiaw smiles(the ones baring his teeth) when he sees me, I love the way he automatically search my hands to hold while we are walking ..or maybe will wave to me like I am a dog, and I will go over with a ‘wolf’ ,, I love the way he goes panicky when my dad missed call him without obvious reasons…etc
the biggest lesson you have learnt from loving your partner:
Having a big heart.